Lately, my evenings havenât looked the way I want them to. Iâve been slipping into a cycle of doomscrollingâscrolling past bedtime, convincing myself Iâm just âwinding downâ when really, Iâm robbing myself of true rest. This habit even has a name: revenge bedtime procrastination. Itâs when you stay up late doing things that arenât restorative simply because you want to reclaim some sense of personal time.
But hereâs the thingâI donât want my âme timeâ to be endless scrolling. I want it to feel intentional, cozy, and nourishing.
My ideal evening looks more like this: a bubble bath with a seasonal candle burning nearby, a lighthearted book or soft music playing in the background, and a few easy chores like folding laundry or tidying my desk. After that, Iâd curl up with a coloring book or journal to let my creativity flow, and then finish with skincare and a good nightâs sleep. Simple, but so much more rewarding than losing an hour to my phone.
If youâve been feeling the same way, maybe itâs time to reclaim your evenings, too. Ask yourself: what little rituals would actually make me feel cared for at the end of the day? Whether itâs tea and a novel, stretching before bed, or pampering yourself with skincare, choose habits that restore you.
Because at the end of the day, you deserve an evening routine that feels like a gift, not an afterthought.