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Writing Rituals for Fall: How to Stay Consistent When Life Gets Busy

Elizabeth Yuen

Fall is one of the busiest times of the year. Between prepping for Halloween, Thanksgiving, and the rest of the upcoming holidays, it’s easy to let writing take a back seat. But as the days grow shorter and our to-do lists get longer, establishing writing rituals can help you stay consistent, even when life gets hectic. Here are some ideas to keep your writing flowing during the busy fall season:

1. Create a Seasonal Writing Schedule

With so many homemaking tasks filling up your days, setting a seasonal writing schedule can help you prioritize your creative time. Look at your calendar and carve out specific writing blocks that fit around your fall activities, whether it’s in the early mornings before the holiday prep begins or during nap time. The key is to plan ahead and set realistic goals for each session.

Tip: Keep your writing schedule flexible. If your usual routine shifts because of holiday prep, adjust your writing blocks as needed. Even 15-30 minutes of focused writing can help keep your momentum going.

2. Incorporate Fall Treats into Your Writing Routine

Fall is full of cozy comforts, from pumpkin spice lattes to warm apple cider. Why not make these seasonal treats part of your writing ritual? Pair your writing time with your favorite fall drink or snack to create a cozy, inviting atmosphere that makes sitting down to write feel like a treat.

Tip: Light a fall-scented candle or play soft autumn-themed music to set the mood in your writing space. The more enjoyable you make the experience, the more likely you are to look forward to your writing time.

3. Use Fall as Creative Inspiration

Fall’s natural beauty can be a source of inspiration for your writing. Whether it’s the changing colors, the crisp air, or the holiday festivities, let the season fuel your creativity. I definitely took inspiration from the fall holidays for my Seasonally Spellbound Series.

Take a walk through the fallen leaves, visit a pumpkin patch, or sit by the fireplace with a notebook in hand. The more you immerse yourself in the season, the easier it is to channel that energy into your work.

Tip: Consider journaling or freewriting about the sights, smells, and sounds of fall. This can help you get your creative juices flowing, even if you’re not working on your main project.

4. Embrace Micro-Writing Sessions

When life gets busy, sometimes long writing sessions just aren’t possible. Instead of waiting for the perfect block of time, embrace micro-writing sessions—short bursts of 10-15 minutes where you write whatever you can. These small sessions can add up over time, and you’ll be surprised at how much progress you can make.

Tip: Keep a notebook or a writing app handy throughout the day so you can jot down ideas or write a few sentences whenever you have a spare moment, like while waiting for food to cook or between tasks.

5. Set Small, Achievable Goals

Fall can bring an overwhelming number of responsibilities, so it’s important to set realistic writing goals. Break down your larger writing projects into smaller, manageable tasks. Whether it’s finishing a scene, outlining a chapter, or brainstorming character development, checking off small tasks will keep you motivated and prevent burnout.

Tip: Use a planner or habit tracker to keep track of your writing progress. Even if you only write a little each day, seeing your streak grow will keep you inspired.

6. Balance Writing and Homemaking Tasks

Fall cleaning, holiday decorating, and meal planning can quickly fill up your schedule, but you can still find time for writing by balancing these tasks. Set specific time slots for chores and writing, and stick to them. For example, you might spend the morning prepping for Halloween and the afternoon writing. This balance ensures that you’re making progress in both areas without feeling overwhelmed.

Tip: Consider combining tasks, like brainstorming while cleaning or plotting a scene while cooking. Some of the best ideas come when you’re doing something else!

7. Celebrate Your Wins

Fall is full of celebrations, so why not celebrate your writing achievements too? Whether you hit a word count goal, finish a chapter, or simply stick to your writing routine, take a moment to recognize your progress. Reward yourself with something small, like a fall treat or an afternoon spent enjoying the season.

Tip: Share your writing milestones with others—whether it’s in a writing group or on social media. Having accountability and support from fellow writers can help keep you motivated during busy times.

Final Thoughts

Fall may be a busy season, but with a few mindful rituals, you can stay consistent in your writing without sacrificing the joy of the season. By creating a cozy writing environment, setting realistic goals, and making the most of your available time, you can maintain your writing flow while still embracing all the magic fall has to offer.

How do you balance writing and seasonal tasks? Share your tips in the comments below!

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Finding Creative Inspiration in Domestic Life

Elizabeth Yuen

As a writer and a stay-at-home mom, my days are filled with everyday tasks—gardening, decorating, cooking, laundry—that may seem far removed from the creative process of storytelling. But over time, I’ve discovered that these activities are more than just chores; they’re powerful sources of inspiration, each offering a unique lens through which I can explore characters, settings, and stories. In fact, the rhythms of domestic life have become an integral part of my writing process.

Decorating and World-Building

Decorating my home is another activity that sparks my creativity. When I arrange furniture or add decorative touches, I’m not just designing a space; I’m considering the mood and energy it brings. Similarly, when I craft the settings in my stories, I think about how the environment reflects my characters’ inner worlds.

For instance, in my current work “The Midnight Masquerade,” the protagonist, Vespera Blackwood, attends a mysterious Halloween masquerade held at a gothic mansion. Drawing on my experiences decorating my own home, I picture the dark, ornate furniture, the flickering candlelight, and the deep, jewel-toned colors that saturate the space. Every detail—from the grand chandelier to the worn velvet curtains—serves as a reflection of the supernatural world Vespera finds herself in. Just as I carefully curate my living space to feel comfortable yet intriguing, I build my story’s settings with purpose, considering how they influence the characters’ emotions and decisions.

The Meditative Creativity of Laundry

Even something as mundane as doing laundry can spark creativity. The repetitive motion of folding clothes, the rhythmic hum of the washing machine—it all becomes a kind of meditation. In those quiet moments, my mind often drifts, unlocking creative solutions or generating new ideas for my stories. I’ve come to appreciate these seemingly “mindless” tasks as opportunities to let my imagination roam freely.

Laundry, with its cyclical nature, also reminds me of the passage of time—something I like to explore in my character development. As I fold clothes, I think about the little details that make characters human: the way someone holds onto an old sweater for sentimental reasons, or how the scent of fresh linens might evoke a childhood memory. These everyday objects can become powerful symbols in a story, giving characters depth and grounding the narrative in reality.

Incorporating Domestic Life into My Writing

In my writing, I love to weave elements of domestic life into my characters’ backgrounds and their day-to-day existence. I find that it adds layers of realism and relatability. A character who gardens may be someone who craves control or peace in their life. A character who obsessively decorates their space might be hiding insecurities or longing for a sense of belonging. Even something as simple as doing laundry can reveal aspects of a character’s personality—whether they’re meticulous, distracted, or using the task as a way to cope with emotions.

Finding Creativity in the Everyday

Ultimately, creativity is everywhere, even in the most routine activities. By embracing the domestic side of life, I’ve found inspiration in the ordinary. Gardening, decorating, laundry—they all offer new perspectives, sensory details, and emotional layers that help bring my stories to life. As I navigate the balance between motherhood and writing, I’ve learned that inspiration doesn’t always come from quiet, uninterrupted time at my desk. Sometimes, the best ideas grow out of the soil, the living room, or even the laundry basket.

If you’re a writer, I encourage you to look for creativity in your own daily life. You might be surprised by how the simplest tasks can fuel your imagination and deepen your storytelling. Whether it’s setting the stage for your next scene or finding a new layer of complexity for your characters, inspiration is all around you—waiting to be uncovered in the most unexpected places.

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Writing and Workout Routines: How I Structure My Day for Both

Elizabeth Yuen

As a stay-at-home mom, writer, and someone who values staying active, finding balance in my daily schedule has been a journey. I’ve crafted a routine that helps me juggle writing, homemaking, and working out, while still making time for my family. Here’s a glimpse into what my typical day looks like:

6:00 AM: Early Start for Breakfast and Writing

The alarm goes off, and I start my day at 6 AM. After grabbing a quick breakfast, I dive straight into writing. This is my sacred hour, where the house is quiet, and I can focus on my creative projects. It’s a golden time to get into the flow and make headway on my novel before the day’s responsibilities kick in.

7:00 AM: Getting Ready for the Day

At 7 AM, I shift gears and start getting ready for the day. Outfits, shoes, bags—everything has to be in place before I head out the door. It’s a busy time––especially as a mom, but I’ve learned to embrace the hustle as part of the morning rhythm.

8:00 AM: Workout Class

By 8 AM, I’m at the gym for a workout class while my kid is in child watch. This is a crucial part of my routine, not only for staying healthy but also for keeping my mind sharp and energized. The hour spent moving and sweating is a great way to reset my brain, giving me the stamina to tackle the rest of the day.

9:30 AM: Childwatch Pickup

After my class, I pick my child up from the gym’s child watch. It’s a quick transition from workout mode back into mom mode, but it’s worth every minute of fitness time. Plus, my little one gets some fun playtime with friends while I’m working out.

10:00 AM: Nap Time Means Clean and Write Time

By 10 AM, it’s time for my child’s first morning nap. This is another golden hour for me. First, I take care of any cleaning or household tasks that need attention. Once the house is in order, I grab my laptop and get back to writing. Whether it’s refining dialogue, plotting, or getting lost in my characters’ world, I make the most of this uninterrupted time.

The Rest of the Day

The afternoon brings more family time, errands, and homemaking tasks. I fit in bits of writing wherever I can, but the morning is when I do the bulk of my creative writing. I love ending the day with a sense of accomplishment from both writing and homemaking, feeling balanced between my roles.

It’s not always easy, but having a structured routine helps me prioritize my passions and responsibilities. Writing, homemaking, and staying active all get their time to shine in my schedule, and that balance keeps me energized and fulfilled.

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Balancing Homemaking Duties with Writing Dreams

Elizabeth Yuen

Balancing the daily demands of homemaking with the pursuit of writing is no easy task, and I often find myself pulled between the two. The struggle is real, but I’ve seen a few strategies that work for me, helping me navigate both worlds with less overwhelm.

1. Setting Realistic Goals

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned is to set goals that align with my current capacity. Instead of aiming to write thousands of words every day, I’ve adjusted my expectations based on the reality of my schedule. On busier days, my goal might be as simple as writing a few hundred words or brainstorming ideas for my next chapter. By setting achievable, flexible goals, I’m able to make steady progress without the constant pressure of falling short.

For my novel writing, I like to break up my chapters into three digestible sections to tackle individually over three days. Day one I focus on part one of the chapter, day two I focus on part two and then day three is the final section. I can write about two chapters a week with that strategy and it’s not overwhelming.

Tip: Break larger writing projects into smaller, manageable tasks. This way, you can celebrate the small wins and stay motivated over time.

2. Asking for Help

It took time, but I’ve learned to ask for help when needed. Whether it’s enlisting my husband to handle certain household chores or asking a family member to watch the my kid for an afternoon, sharing the load has been key. I used to feel guilty about needing help, but now I see it as essential to creating balance. Writing is important to me, and asking for support has given me more time for my creative work.

Tip: Identify areas where you can delegate tasks, whether housework or childcare, and don’t hesitate to ask for assistance. I also recommend looking into child watch options at your local gym if that’s available to you.

3. You Don’t Have to be Perfect

Perfectionism was something I struggled with in both homemaking and writing. I wanted everything to be spotless, every meal homemade, and every word I wrote to be perfect. But trying to meet those unrealistic standards only led to burnout. Now, I accept that some days the laundry might pile up, or a rough draft may not be as polished as I’d like. By letting go of trying to be perfect, I’ve found more freedom to focus on what matters most—whether that’s spending quality time with my family or working on my novel.

Tip: Accept that not everything will be perfect, and that’s okay. Both your home and your writing are allowed to have flaws.

4. Prioritizing Self-Care

Taking care of myself has been crucial in balancing everything. Whether it’s a quiet morning with a cup of tea before the household wakes up or a quick walk in the afternoon, I make time to recharge. When I’m well-rested and mentally refreshed, I’m more productive and better equipped to handle both writing and homemaking responsibilities.

Don’t skimp on this. It is absolutely key to take time for yourself. Some of us only have the luxury of taking care of ourselves for an hour after everyone in the house is asleep. Take advantage of that and dedicate an hour of your time to taking care of you.

Tip: Make self-care a daily habit to help with your energy levels and mental clarity.

Conclusion

Balancing housework with writing ambitions requires a combination of realistic goal-setting, asking for help, accepting imperfection, and making space for self-care. It’s not always easy, but these strategies have helped me find a rhythm that works, allowing me to pursue my writing while still keeping the household running. If you’re struggling with this balance, know that it’s okay to adjust your expectations and seek support—it’s all part of the journey.

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How to Save for the Big Leap: Building a Financial Cushion to Pursue Writing Full Time

Elizabeth Yuen

Financial security was a priority when I decided to transition to full-time homemaking and pursue my passion for writing. Building a safety net was essential before making this leap. Read on to find out how I approached this massive life change and for tips and tricks to help you make your own leap of faith.

1. Setting Up an Emergency Fund

The first step was creating an emergency fund. I aimed to save at least three to six months’ worth of living expenses. This fund can be separate from your regular savings and should be strictly reserved for emergencies—unexpected home repairs, medical expenses, or anything life might throw my way. To stay disciplined, I recommend setting up automatic transfers into a high-yield savings account, making it easier to watch your fund grow.

Setting up an emergency fund can seem daunting at first, but if you start small, it can add up over time. Plus, by choosing an account that earns interest but is still accessible when needed, you can access your funds quickly should an emergency arise.

2. Paying Off Debt

Debt can be a heavy burden, especially when income might become less predictable. Before becoming a full-time homemaker and writer, I made paying off high-interest debt a top priority. I recommend paying off high-interest debts first (like credit cards), as it accumulates quickly. When I first started, I used Dave Ramsey’s “debt snowball” method to get me going. By eliminating my student loan debt, I reduced the pressure on my budget, freeing up more money for day-to-day expenses and savings.

3. Budgeting for a Financial Buffer

In addition to my emergency fund, I created a financial buffer for the unpredictable costs that come with managing a household and creative work. I anticipated the expenses related to my writing career, from purchasing books and writing tools to attending workshops or even hiring a babysitter for dedicated writing time. Having this buffer in place gave me the confidence to explore opportunities without the constant worry of overspending.

If you’re planning on leaving a typical nine-to-five job, I recommend setting aside funds specifically for your creative and/or career-related expenses. I also recommend accounting for irregular or seasonal costs (Christmas gifts, anyone?) when budgeting.

4. Living Within (and Below) My Means

One of the most important habits I developed was living below my means. This allowed me to continue saving, even as I focused on managing a household. Tracking expenses, cutting unnecessary costs, and prioritizing essential spending helped keep my finances in check.

I started doing this well before I ever got married. I would regularly review my spending to find areas where I could cut back. I also made lifestyle adjustments when I was single that supported my long-term financial goals like taking up exercise that didn’t cost much money (running, hiking, or using my old apartment’s gym equipment over an expensive gym membership), doing free activities (going to a park for a date, cooking for friends at home instead of going out, volunteering for charities to make even more friends), and making sure I was eating at home a lot of the time.

5. Planning for the Long Term

Finally, I didn’t lose sight of my long-term goals. Even while focusing on immediate financial security, I made sure to contribute to retirement accounts and consider my future financial needs. Balancing short-term demands with long-term planning helped me feel more secure in my decision to become a full-time homemaker and writer.

Conclusion

Building a financial safety net allowed me to confidently step into full-time homemaking and writing. With the right planning—saving for emergencies, reducing debt, budgeting wisely, and living below my means—I was able to pursue my passion without sacrificing financial security. For anyone considering a similar path, careful financial preparation can make all the difference.

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Organizing Your Life to Prioritize Writing

Elizabeth Yuen

As a stay-at-home parent, balancing homemaking duties with writing goals can feel overwhelming. The never-ending list of chores and responsibilities often makes it hard to carve out dedicated time for writing. However, with some thoughtful planning and organization, managing your household while prioritizing your creative work is possible. Here’s how you can organize your daily homemaking tasks to create space for writing, maintain mental clarity, and stay productive.

1. Create a Daily To-Do List

One of the simplest ways to organize your day is by making a to-do list. Before you start your morning, jot down the most important tasks that need to be done. This could include laundry, meal prep, tidying up, or paying bills. Break these down into small, manageable tasks, which makes the list less overwhelming and gives you a sense of accomplishment as you check things off.

The trick to a good to-do list is prioritizing. Ask yourself which tasks are time-sensitive and which can be pushed to later. Once you’ve identified the must-dos, block off time for writing. Treat it as a non-negotiable part of your day, like cooking or cleaning.

2. Declutter for Mental Clarity

A cluttered space can lead to a cluttered mind. When your surroundings are messy, it’s harder to focus on creative work. One of the best ways to set yourself up for a productive writing session is by keeping your home tidy and organized.

You don’t need to deep-clean every single day, but consider decluttering your most-used spaces. Focus on clearing off your desk or kitchen counter—the places where you might be working or brainstorming. A quick 10-minute clean-up can make a huge difference in how mentally prepared you feel to write.

3. Schedule Writing as Part of Your Daily Routine

Writing needs to be part of your daily routine, not just an afterthought. To make it easier, schedule your writing sessions around your homemaking tasks. For example, if you know you’ll have 30 minutes while the kids nap or after dinner, set that time aside specifically for writing.

This is where having a planner (I like the Daily Grind Planner) can be a game-changer. Having a planner allows you to map out your day, organize your household tasks, and still leave room for the things that matter most—like your writing. It’s designed to help you prioritize effectively, so you can find a balance between managing your home and working on your passion projects.

With a planner, you can:

  • Break your day into manageable chunks
  • Track your writing progress alongside homemaking tasks
  • Set daily goals that focus on both home management and creative work
  • Organize your week in advance to see where writing fits into the bigger picture

Having a planner like this helps you not just survive the day but thrive by knowing that both your homemaking and writing goals are being met.

4. Batch Similar Tasks Together

When you have a long list of chores, consider batching similar tasks together. For example, do all of your laundry at once, or meal prep for the week in one afternoon. This saves time and mental energy, giving you more space to write.

By organizing similar tasks, you’ll spend less time bouncing between different duties and more time in a productive flow. Once you’ve completed these tasks, you can focus fully on writing without worrying about the next chore on your list.

5. Start the Day with Intention

Your mornings set the tone for the rest of the day. If you start with intention, you’re more likely to stay organized and productive. Try to begin each day with a quick review of your planner or to-do list. Mentally prepare for both your homemaking responsibilities and your writing time.

Additionally, consider starting your day with a short writing session if possible. Even 15–20 minutes of writing first thing in the morning can give you a sense of progress and motivation to carry you through the rest of your day.

6. Build in Downtime

Finally, remember to give yourself some grace. Balancing homemaking and writing is no small task. Build some downtime into your schedule so you don’t burn out. Whether it’s a walk, a quiet moment with a cup of tea, or reading a book, having a few moments of rest will help you recharge and stay productive in the long run.

Final Thoughts

Organizing your daily homemaking tasks is key to finding more time for writing. By using tools like to-do lists, decluttering spaces, and incorporating writing into your daily schedule, you can ensure both your home and creative projects stay on track. With the help of a planner (again, my personal favorite is the Daily Grind Planner), it becomes much easier to balance these dual roles effectively.

Don’t wait for the perfect moment—make writing a priority today by organizing your life in a way that supports both your homemaking and your passion for storytelling.

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How Becoming a Mom Changed My Perspective on My Writing Career

Elizabeth Yuen

When I first set out to pursue my writing career, I had a clear vision of success. I imagined long hours spent crafting stories, meeting tight deadlines, and rapidly building a portfolio of published work. But then, I became a mom—and everything changed.

Motherhood didn’t just transform my day-to-day life; it completely shifted my perspective on what success looks like and how I approach my writing. Here’s how becoming a mom has redefined my writing journey.

1. Redefining Success

Before having children, success felt like something to chase relentlessly. It was all about hitting certain milestones—completing projects, getting published, growing my audience. But motherhood taught me that success isn’t just about tangible achievements. Now, success looks more like balance and fulfillment. It’s about creating work that I’m proud of, while also being present for my family.

Writing, for me, is no longer tied solely to external validation. Instead, it’s about telling stories that matter, even if they take longer to complete or don’t always reach a wide audience. I’ve come to appreciate that success is about quality, not quantity.

2. Letting Go of Timelines

Before becoming a mother, I would set very strict timelines for my writing goals. I wanted to get published by a certain age, complete a novel by a set date, and try to keep up with all things career and productivity. But once I became a mom, I had to let go of all of that.

Motherhood is totally unpredictable. Some days, I have the energy and time to write for hours at a time. Other days, my kid decides to nap for twenty minutes and that’s all the writing I get done for that day. This used to frustrate me to no end, but now I’ve learned to embrace the ebb and flow of motherhood. My writing will eventually get done, but I’ve realized that it’s okay to just take it slow.

3. Embracing Flexibility

Motherhood has required me to embrace flexibility in all aspects of life, including my writing career. My writing routine is no longer rigid. Some days, I wake up early to squeeze in a few quiet moments before the household wakes up. On other days, I jot down notes while my kid plays. Flexibility has become essential to maintaining both my writing practice and my role as a mom.

This adaptability has also helped me become more patient and compassionate with myself. I’ve learned that it’s okay to pause, reset, and return to my writing when life allows. The creative process doesn’t have to be rushed.

4. Focusing on the Journey, Not Just the Destination

In the past, I viewed writing as a race to the finish line—publish the book, get the recognition, and then move on to the next project. But motherhood has taught me that the journey is just as important, if not more so, than the destination. I’ve learned to savor the small victories: a well-written sentence, a breakthrough in a difficult scene, or even the act of sitting down to write, no matter how brief.

My writing career is no longer defined by end goals alone. It’s about enjoying the process of creation, finding joy in the everyday moments of inspiration, and celebrating progress in whatever form it takes.

Final Thoughts

Becoming a mom has undoubtedly slowed down my writing career, but it has also made it more meaningful. My goals have shifted from productivity and achievement to growth and fulfillment. I’ve learned to be kinder to myself, to embrace the unpredictable nature of life, and to cherish the creative journey.

Motherhood has changed my perspective on writing in the best possible way. I’m not just chasing a dream—I’m living it, one story at a time, alongside the most important role of my life as a mother.

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Finding Time to Write While Managing a Home

Elizabeth Yuen

As a homemaker, my days are filled with countless responsibilities—caring for my family, managing the home, cooking, cleaning, and everything in between. When you add the dream of writing to the mix, it can feel like an overwhelming balancing act. However, with some strategic planning and a little creativity, it’s absolutely possible to carve out writing time amidst the hustle of homemaking. Here are some strategies that have worked for me, and I hope they can help you too!

1. Time-Blocking for Success

One of the most effective tools for managing both homemaking and writing is time-blocking. This method involves dividing your day into specific chunks of time, each dedicated to a particular task. By assigning blocks of time to homemaking duties, family care, and writing, you can create a balanced schedule that ensures nothing gets neglected.

For example, you might block off the morning for house chores and family activities, reserving the afternoon for a focused writing session while the kids nap or have quiet time. I tend to write while my child naps so I get quiet, uninterrupted time for my writing.

Tip: Start by assessing your daily routine and identifying when you’re most productive. Block off your high-energy hours for writing and schedule homemaking tasks for when your energy dips or when the household is more active.

2. Establish a Routine

Establishing a consistent routine is essential. It provides structure, ensuring that both you and your family are aware of what to expect each day. Set designated times for your writing—whether it’s an hour in the early morning before everyone wakes up or during the kids’ quiet time in the afternoon.

By making writing part of your daily routine, you’re more likely to stick to it and build the habit. Plus, when everyone knows it’s “writing time,” they’ll be more inclined to respect that space. I always write at the same time every day to keep my creativity going.

Tip: Include your family in your routine planning. Let them know when it’s your writing time so they can give you the space you need. Even young children can learn to respect quiet writing moments when it’s part of the daily rhythm.

3. Maximize Small Pockets of Time

Not every writing session needs to be a two-hour marathon. In fact, you can make significant progress by using the small pockets of time scattered throughout your day. Maybe you have 15 minutes while the kids are playing, or 20 minutes while dinner is in the oven—these moments add up.

Instead of waiting for the “perfect” time to write, seize the short bursts of quiet time you have. Keep a notebook or your phone handy so you can jot down ideas, outline chapters, or write a few sentences whenever a free moment arises.

Tip: Try setting a timer for 15-20 minutes during these small pockets and focus on one specific writing task. You’ll be amazed at how much you can accomplish in short, focused bursts.

4. Prioritize Writing Like Any Other Task

As homemakers, we often put everyone else’s needs ahead of our own, but your writing dream is important too. Treat it like any other essential task on your to-do list—whether it’s laundry, cooking, or taking the kids to school. By making your writing a priority, you’ll give yourself permission to take time for it without feeling guilty.

Tip: Write your daily or weekly to-do list and include writing time as one of the top items. By scheduling it alongside other responsibilities, you’re more likely to follow through.

5. Create a Dedicated Writing Space

Creating a dedicated writing space can greatly enhance your focus and productivity. It doesn’t have to be a full home office—just a corner with a comfortable chair, a desk, or even a cozy nook by a window. Sitting in this space signals to your brain that it’s time to write, helping you get into the flow more easily.

Tip: Try to keep this space free of distractions. Set up a cozy environment with your favorite writing tools, and when you sit there, make it your goal to focus solely on your writing.

6. Delegate and Simplify

One of the challenges of homemaking is feeling like you need to do everything yourself. But remember, it’s okay to delegate tasks or simplify your daily chores. Get the family involved—kids can help with age-appropriate chores, and partners can share responsibilities too. The more help you have, the more time you can carve out for your writing.

Tip: Consider meal prepping or choosing simpler recipes on busy days. By lightening your homemaking load, you’ll have more energy and time to dedicate to your creative pursuits.

7. Use Early Mornings or Late Nights

If you’re someone who enjoys the quiet calm of the early morning or late at night, these times can be perfect for uninterrupted writing. Waking up even 30 minutes earlier than usual can give you a solid block of time to write before the day’s demands set in. Similarly, if you’re a night owl, consider dedicating some of your evenings to writing after the household has settled down.

Tip: Experiment with early mornings and late nights to see what works best for your body and energy levels. Choose whichever time feels most productive and peaceful.

8. Be Kind to Yourself

It’s essential to acknowledge that some days will be more difficult than others. There will be times when household tasks take longer than anticipated, or when family needs come before writing. And that’s perfectly fine. The key to balancing writing with homemaking is to stay flexible and be kind to yourself.

Tip: Celebrate the small wins. Even if you only write for 10 minutes or finish a paragraph, it’s still progress. Don’t be hard on yourself if things don’t go perfectly—there will always be another day to try again.

Balancing homemaking with writing is no easy feat, but it’s absolutely possible with the right mindset and planning. By time-blocking, building routines, and maximizing small pockets of time, you can carve out space in your busy days to nurture your writing dreams. The key is to stay flexible, be intentional with your time, and remind yourself that your creative passion is just as important as any other responsibility.

With a little patience and determination, you’ll find the rhythm that works best for you, and your writing will flourish, even amidst the beautiful chaos of homemaking.

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How We Live Frugally to Support My Writing Career

Elizabeth Yuen

For as long as I can remember, I’ve dreamed of being a writer and a full-time homemaker, balancing the creative joys of storytelling with the satisfaction of nurturing a family. But as with most dreams, there were financial realities to face. Becoming a stay-at-home mom and pursuing my passion for writing meant making some serious changes in how we approached money.

Adopting a frugal lifestyle has been key to making this dream a reality. By being mindful about our spending and focusing on what truly matters, we’ve found a way to live comfortably, enjoy life, and support my aspirations as a writer, all while sticking to a tight budget. I’d love to share a few strategies that have helped us, with tips for budgeting as a family, low-cost activities, and making smarter financial choices.

1. Set Clear Financial Goals

The first step in our frugal journey was getting clear on what we wanted. My dream of writing and homemaking meant transitioning to a single income, so we needed to assess our financial situation and set clear goals. We started by determining how much we needed for basic living expenses—like housing, utilities, food, and savings—then calculated how much we could save by cutting unnecessary spending.

Tip: Write down your long-term financial goals, whether it’s buying a house, starting a business, or simply living debt-free. This will guide your spending choices and keep you motivated.

2. Create a Family Budget

One of the most effective tools for frugal living is a solid budget. We sat down and created a family budget that broke down our monthly income and categorized our expenses. From groceries to entertainment, we tracked every penny to see where we could cut back.

Tip: Use a simple spreadsheet or a budgeting app to track your income and expenses. Set realistic spending limits for each category and review them regularly to stay on track.

3. Plan Low-Cost Family Activities

Being frugal doesn’t mean sacrificing fun. In fact, we’ve discovered that some of the best family memories come from simple, low-cost activities. Instead of pricey outings, we opt for budget-friendly experiences, like visiting local parks, having movie nights at home, or taking nature walks.

We also love DIY projects—whether it’s a home-cooked meal together, a craft afternoon, or even a themed family game night, these activities foster connection without costing much.

Tip: Check out community events, free museum days, or local libraries, which often host free or low-cost programs for families. Prioritize time spent together over expensive outings.

4. Get Creative with Groceries

Groceries are one of the biggest expenses for a family, but there are ways to save without sacrificing quality. I’ve learned the art of meal planning, buying in bulk, and cooking from scratch, which has helped us cut costs significantly. We also avoid pre-packaged convenience foods and focus on whole, versatile ingredients that can stretch across multiple meals.

Tip: Plan your meals around what’s on sale or in season, and don’t be afraid to try generic brands—they often taste just as good at a fraction of the price. Batch cooking and freezing leftovers also helps reduce waste and save money.

5. Prioritize DIY and Secondhand

We’ve embraced the DIY mindset and learned to fix, create, and repurpose things ourselves. From simple home repairs to crafting my own décor, I’ve found that doing things myself not only saves money but also brings a sense of accomplishment. When we do need to buy something, we turn to secondhand stores, online marketplaces, or swap with friends and family.

Tip: Before making any purchase, ask yourself if it’s something you can borrow, buy secondhand, or make yourself. This small shift can lead to big savings over time.

6. Focus on Needs, Not Wants

Living frugally has taught us to differentiate between needs and wants. Every purchase is considered carefully—will this item add value to our lives, or is it something we can do without? This mindset shift has helped us avoid impulsive spending and focus on what truly matters.

Tip: When tempted to buy something, give yourself a cooling-off period. Wait 48 hours and see if you still feel the same urge. Often, the desire passes, and you’ll be glad you didn’t make a hasty purchase.

7. Build an Emergency Fund

One of the best financial decisions we’ve made is prioritizing an emergency fund. Having savings set aside for unexpected expenses, like car repairs or medical bills (or dealing with house emergencies, like our flooded first floor), gives us peace of mind and prevents us from relying on any credit cards. Even with a frugal lifestyle, emergencies happen, so having a cushion is essential.

Tip: Start small by setting aside a portion of your income each month until you reach at least three to six months’ worth of living expenses. Automating your savings can help make it a consistent habit.

By being intentional with choices surrounding money, I’ve been able to focus more on my writing and homemaking without the stress of financial strain. Living frugally does not mean giving up on any enjoyment or comfort––it just means being strategic, resourceful, and thrifty with what you’ve got.

With thoughtful budgeting, low-cost family activities, and smarter spending habits, my dream of being a writer and homemaker is not only possible but fulfilling in ways I hadn’t imagined.

If you’re looking to follow a similar path, I hope these tips inspire you to embrace a frugal lifestyle and pursue your own passions. Every penny saved is a step closer to your dreams!

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Book-Themed Workouts for Readers and Writers: Staying Fit in Your Favorite Fictional World

Elizabeth Yuen

Workouts inspired by books are trending. Now, this trend isn’t exactly the most recent, but I’ve noticed it popping up across social media platforms like Instagram and TikTok. Anywhere from running to Mordor to the Nesta Archeron 10K step challenge, bookish workouts are taking the internet by storm.

And I am so here for it.

In this post, I’ll share creative, book-inspired workouts that allow you to stay fit while channeling the energy of your favorite characters and stories. Whether you’re a fan of epic fantasy quests, dystopian thrillers, or cozy magical realms, there’s a workout here that will get your heart racing and your mind buzzing with creative energy.

1. Running to Mordor: A Lord of the Rings Cardio Adventure

Ever wondered how far Frodo and Sam actually walked to Mordor? Well, it’s about 1,779 miles from Hobbiton to Mount Doom, and now you can tackle this epic distance at your own pace! This workout is perfect for runners, walkers, or even treadmill enthusiasts who want to add a bit of adventure to their cardio routine.

How it works:

  • Track your distance with a fitness app (like Strava) and aim to walk or run the full distance over time.
  • Break the journey into manageable segments—like walking to Bree or crossing the Dead Marshes—and reward yourself at each milestone (a cup of tea in the Shire, anyone?).
  • You can even gather a “Fellowship” of friends or fellow writers to join you on this epic quest!

Bonus: Listen to the “Lord of the Rings” audiobook or soundtrack while you exercise to truly immerse yourself in Middle-earth!

2. The Hunger Games Survival Circuit

In the world of The Hunger Games, survival is key, and that means staying physically fit and ready for anything. This workout focuses on agility, strength, and endurance, just like Katniss would need in the arena.

How it works:

  • Archery lunges: Stand in a lunge position as if pulling back a bow. Do 10 reps on each side to strengthen your legs and core.
  • Tree-climbing squats: Katniss spent a lot of time climbing trees—replicate that strength with 3 sets of 15 squats to build powerful legs.
  • Agility jumps: Practice dodging fireballs or leaping over logs with side-to-side agility jumps. Jump back and forth for 30 seconds, rest, and repeat for 3 rounds.
  • Sprint like you’re being chased: Finish with 3 rounds of 20-second sprints, followed by 40 seconds of walking, to mimic running for your life!

3. The Nesta Archeron 10K Step Challenge (From A Court of Thorns and Roses)

Inspired by Nesta Archeron’s daily stair-climbing challenge in A Court of Silver Flames, this workout will get your legs burning and your steps in. Challenge yourself to hit 10,000 steps a day or add stair-climbing into your routine for a serious leg workout.

How it works:

  • Find a set of stairs (or use a stair machine) and aim to climb them for 20 minutes. Alternatively, set a daily goal of 10,000 steps if you prefer walking.
  • For an extra challenge, add in weighted stair climbs: carry light dumbbells or even your favorite book (as a symbolic weight) as you climb.

Bonus: As you climb, channel Nesta’s fierce determination and use this time to mentally work through your next story plotline!

4. The Hogwarts House Workout

For Harry Potter fans, you can infuse a little magic into your fitness routine by channeling the Hogwarts spirit. Each House has unique traits, and this workout is designed to help you embrace the strengths of Gryffindor, Hufflepuff, Ravenclaw, or Slytherin.

How it works:

  • Gryffindor courage: 3 rounds of 10 burpees to build explosive power and bravery.
  • Hufflepuff endurance: Hold a 1-minute plank to work on persistence and core strength.
  • Ravenclaw wisdom: Stretch for 10 minutes at the end of your workout—yoga or deep stretches—to focus on mindfulness and flexibility.
  • Slytherin ambition: Finish with 3 sets of 15 push-ups to build upper-body strength and determination.

Bonus: Keep track of your progress and reward yourself with a “House Cup” (a cozy cup of tea or coffee) after each successful workout session!

5. The Dauntless Training Regimen (From Divergent)

In Divergent, Dauntless initiates undergo intense physical training to test their bravery and strength. This high-intensity workout will have you feeling like a true Dauntless member, ready to leap from trains and face your fears.

How it works:

  • Box jumps or step-ups: 3 sets of 10, mimicking the leap from a moving train.
  • Push-ups: 3 sets of 15 to build upper body strength like a true Dauntless fighter.
  • Tire flips or kettlebell swings: Channel Dauntless grit with 3 sets of 10 reps to build full-body power.
  • Fear simulation runs: End with a 20-minute interval run, alternating between 1 minute of sprinting and 1 minute of walking to simulate the adrenaline rush of facing your greatest fear.

Want a more in-depth plan? Check this out.

6. The Jane Austen Stroll: A Regency-Era Walk

If intense workouts aren’t your style, take a leaf out of Jane Austen’s novels and enjoy a daily stroll through your neighborhood or a nearby park. Walking is a great way to stay active while reflecting on your latest writing project or mentally crafting the perfect scene.

How it works:

  • Aim for a 30- to 60-minute walk each day. During your walk, clear your mind and let the peaceful pace help you untangle plot points or character arcs.
  • Take a notebook or use a voice recording app to capture any sudden bursts of inspiration during your stroll.

7. The “Writing Sprint” Workout

Combine writing sprints with quick bursts of exercise to get the best of both worlds. Write for 20 minutes, then do a quick 5-minute workout to re-energize before diving back into your story.

Workout intervals:

  • 20-minute writing sprint
  • 5-minute workout: 10 squats, 10 push-ups, and a 30-second plank
  • Repeat for 3 or 4 rounds to stay productive and active!

Final Thoughts

Book-themed workouts are a fun, creative way to merge fitness with your love of reading and writing. Not only do they help you stay healthy, but they also keep your imagination alive by immersing you in your favorite fictional worlds. Next time you feel stuck at your desk or need a boost of inspiration, why not take a cue from Frodo, Katniss, or Harry and get moving?

So, lace up your running shoes, grab your water bottle (or your magic wand), and start sweating your way through the stories you love!